“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” 1 Thessalonians 5:18

We are quickly approaching our season of Thanksgiving and although life may seem grim at times, there is so much to be thankful for. I’d rather concentrate on and be grateful for the good things: babies are still being born, couples are still exchanging wedding vows, new homes are still being built, entrepreneurs are taking the leap of faith starting new businesses, authors are still writing books, healing is taking place, and promotions are in the making.

I am also grateful for the quiet moments and simple things in life: fresh flowers, soft pajamas, scented candles, Yogi Honey Chai tea, listening to music, long walks in my neighborhood waving at my neighbors, listening to a new Audible book, learning something new, meaningful discussions with my women’s ministry, deep conversations with my sons, the giggles of my grandbabies, and chats and lots of laughter with my sister-friends.

Instead of focusing on the negative, I choose to be grateful for the positive. As the scripture tell us, “And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose” Romans 8:28. I offer the following perspectives that can assist you in maintaining a grateful positive attitude:

• Don’t allow your beginning to dictate your end.
• It is never too late to succeed.
• Know who you are in Christ; do not allow man to put labels on you.
• Never label or brand yourself with a current situation (i.e., divorced, broke, sick, etc.)
• Seek therapy if you need it. Get to the root of your dysfunction.
• The root of your dysfunction could have originated in childhood.
• Embrace your past and learn from it; but don’t stay stuck in it.
• Whatever you are struggling with, speak it. Don’t allow it to hold you hostage.
• Forgive yourself and forgive those who hurt you.
• You will make mistakes along the way; pick yourself up, dust yourself off and keep it moving.
• Every unfortunate situation in your life is a life lesson. Find the lesson. It will all be used for your purpose.
• Drown out negative chatter.
• Cultivate genuine friendships.
• Surround yourself with positive energy.
• Surround yourself with people who are smarter than you.
• Always be willing to learn something new.
• Don’t be afraid of rejection or failure.
• Invest in you—practice self-care.
• Share your gifts and talents with others. Serving others is healing.
• Look back and remember who God placed along your path. You may not have had who you wanted there, but God had a good replacement.
• Everyone won’t celebrate your accomplishments—be grateful for those who do.
• Find your purpose. What is God calling you to do?
• We don’t go through troubles for our own benefit—it is to benefit others.
• What will your legacy be? What do you want to leave behind for your children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren to remember?

Let’s choose to be grateful in all circumstances. During this holiday season, I challenge you to serve someone, uplift or celebrate someone who maybe suffering a loss – just take the time to make someone else’s day. You would be surprised how good it will make you feel.

Wishing you a Happy Thanksgiving!!! Stay safe and well.